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The “Yin and Yang” of Intimate Play: Sensation Play BDSM

 

 

 

Lovers man and woman are preparing for role-playing games. Dominate obey undress seduce a partner. Girl dressed in black lacy negligee, wearing sexy underwear. A sensual date idea. Thematic bdsm party
 

 

There’s a phenomenon on the rise that intrigues me: a desire for safe “Sensation Play.”  BDSM (“Bondage/Discipline/Dominance/Submission/Sadism/Masochism”) is an ideal container for people to explore their desire to be dominated, while maintaining their safety.  BDSM done properly can serve a variety of purposes, and can benefit people in a multitude of ways.  Some of these include, but are not limited to, the following:

 

          * Play where a person (the “Sub”) is encouraged to “give up control” and completely submit to the “other” (the

            “Dom”); this results in a “letting go” of all responsibilities and commitments

 

         * Play where the Sub can explore their innermost fantasies in a safe, contained, non-judgmental environment;

            and

 

        * Play where the Dom iterates between delivering pain and pleasure (Yin and Yang); this allows for the creation

          of new, safe memories where pain is involved, but where pain itself is not the end goal – the safety, care, and

          ultimate pleasure of the Sub is; this is an excellent container for the recapitulation of a traumatic past

 

Whichever you prefer, Master Marc invites you to his dungeon.  Imagine yourself chained to his cross, unable to leave, but strangely feeling safe and at ease.  A table beside the cross holds the implements he will use to facilitate your experience, but you can’t see them; they are covered with a towel.

 

Soft candlelight and gentle music permeate the room, and he begins by speaking to you quietly of the things he plans to do to you.  Nothing he says frightens you, strangely enough, because the energy is that of a safe space.  Marc’s dungeon is safe.  Marc is safe.  You are safe.  You know this, even though you’re not quite sure why, so you give yourself over, and trust the process.  And so it begins…

 

Something brushes against the bare skin of your back…then your buttocks, and now your thighs.  You can’t see it, because you can’t turn around enough to see, but it tickles, yet it seems to possibly have a hard edge?  Could it be used for pain or pleasure?  You’re not sure.  You don’t know, and yet you wait in anticipation for either, because by now, you want it all.

 

His touch.  His caress.  His implements lashing against your skin, then gently stroking and lightly tickling.  He switches between sensations.  Stingy, then soft and furry.  Thuddy, then gentle and tickly.  Hard, then soft, iterating, changing, switching it up until it all ends in a crescendo of pain/pleasure that hurts/feels ecstatic at the same time!

 

And now, you are his.  He takes you.  You surrender.  Bliss is the goal, and bliss is the final evolution of the session.  In Marc’s arms.  Under him.  Him inside you.  Him touching you, feeling you, tasting you.  And then, finally, after a finally crescendo of pleasure, you find yourself safe in his arms.  The room is bathed in soft candlelight, you are with him on his bed; you breathe in freedom, and breathe out those things you’ve so long wanted to let go of.  You are safe.  You are satiated.  You are empty and full at the same time.  You are free.

 

Master Marc awaits. Reach out here, at marcspinoza2017@gmail.com, or call/text at 647-703-9515.  Your liberation from this world is one short message away.